Breathe Magazine – Issue 71

In this issue: Natural high – Layers of meaning – Footsteps to free thought – Stranger things – On the home front – Walk on the wild side – Get the balance right – A family for all seasons – Made in Estonia – Chaos rules

From so-called weeds to salvaged iron screens and toppled trees to ravenous beasties, many gardens are looking slightly more relaxed these days. Some might even venture as far as to call them chaotic. It could be a fashion thing or it might be a more permanent shift to a style of gardening that works with nature rather than against it. Either way, the results are frequently as beautiful as they are resilient while also having the power to surprise.

Chaos isn’t for everyone, though – and nor should it be. Surprises aren’t always welcome or great, after all, and a little planning is often beneficial, both in life and in the garden.

Perhaps there’s a balance to be struck between the messy and the manicured, one where diversity, be that of wildlife or emotions, is understood, respected and accepted; where healthy interdependence in friendships and relationships is valued, just as some plants provide sustenance for pollinators; where freedom to be different is encouraged without overlooking shared needs and connections.

It’s no easy feat. As any gardener – be they in novice or award-winning territory – will attest, some plants have an invasive habit, others need regular attention, many are happy mostly to do their own thing but still value appreciation. And that’s only a snapshot of the differences. To find a similar balance in life, one where everyone can flourish, also requires collaboration, communication and, yes, sometimes, a little chaos.

It doesn’t equal ripping up the yearly planner, though, or the hand weeder for that matter. Thinking ahead and making tough decisions are just as important. But maybe use a pencil every now and then, and, when it feels okay, try a lighter touch in the garden.